How to Support an Introverted Child - Introvert Whisperer

Introvert Whisperer / How to Support an Introverted Child - Introvert Whisperer How to Support an Introverted Child Kayla Matthews December 13, 2019 Communication No responses Go to top Introverted children stand out in a fast=paced and social world. Standing out isnt a bad thing, but many children would rather fit in than be different from peers. However, you can help your child understand being quiet or reserved is nothing to feel shame about. Introverts navigate the world differently from ambiverts or extroverts, but they have as much to offer as anyone else. There are many ways for you to support the introverts in your life â€" keep reading to discover some helpful techniques. How Introverts Thrive Introverts and extroverts differ in many ways â€" the most notable being their socializing styles. Contrary to popular belief,   most introverts dont hate interacting with others. Interacting with others is generally an overload that requires them to step back and recharge. Conversely, extroverts gain energy from socializing and feel drained when not communicating with others. Many societies lean toward extroversion and prefer collaboration and outgoing behavior. However, introverts prefer solitude to help them collect their thoughts and develop ideas. They do well in slower-paced learning environments and dont like being singled out for answers. New experiences can be daunting, but they approach these most effectively by observing and then doing â€" with encouragement from siblings, friends or parents. Ways to Give Support and Acknowledgement Whether youre a parent, teacher or relative, you can help your introvert build confidence. The suggestions below give you a starting point, but consider the childs perspective also. Ask them what you can do to better accommodate their wants and needs, and avoid approaching them with preconceived notions. Though most introverts share similar traits, theyre also individuals with unique preferences. Social Skills Having one or two friends isnt something to stress over â€" refrain from pushing your child to make tons of connections. Socializing with strangers can be nervewracking for introverts, which is why its often better to let them observe before joining in. Work on social skills at home by role-playing and giving them guidance on things to say in certain situations. This exercise goes doubly for younger children, who are only beginning to learn about socializing and emotional regulation. Quiet Time Advocate for quiet zones in the classroom or school. These serve as places where introverted students can go during recess or lunch when theyre feeling overwhelmed. Lunchrooms and playgrounds are crowded, loud and chaotic, which can deplete an introverts energy fast. Having somewhere to refresh themselves during the day lets them return to class with more willingness to participate.